About being a wife
Recently I just heard from my friend in Indonesia about her broken marriage... She is married for 3-4 years... They have a 2 year-old baby.... Her husband left her at her parents' house now. She has no jobs, so she has to survive by being a single mom with some decent money from her husband that lives somewhere else.... I am not sure either if the money is enough or not. The reason is : The husband wants her to get a job as well to support the family and another woman in their marriage life. Let's take this as an imaginary story.... So noone would hurt or be hurt.... But I am pretty sure, this kind of story... it is not something very special... I bet so many women experienced this problem.... Not only in Indonesia, but all around the world. I am not married yet, How am I supposed to understand this ? I have a job that can fulfil my own needs, how could I tell her to get a job? I ill not do that. To all those men who did this to your women, You deserve the lowest...